COUNTING BLESSINGS.

From Freshman To Fearless.

Dear Friend,

Believe me when I say I am truly sorry you didn't get to read from me last month. I had you in mind, and I always do, but I had to attend to things that came up.

Also, I am aware you might be reading from me for the first time. Do note that I do not take your presence for granted. Welcome to this amazing space where we share nothing but love!

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That said, do you know this song?

"Two years don waka, we still dey carry go, nobody waka, nobody go so low…."

I bet you do. And if you don't, there's no need to worry. It's an easy one! The song reminds me of “end of session” moments in secondary school.

And as a reflection of how far I have come and my transition into the next level, I decided to share with you, how excited I am. Every achievement, either little or big, deserves to be celebrated, and here's one of the ways of celebrating mine. (Ha! I don't want to tell you how I celebrated yesterday, I'm shy).

As you read this, I can proudly say I am no longer a 200 level student. It feels surreal to have completed two academic years, considering how stressful it seemed to be. 

Three years ago, I envisioned that by 2023, I would have completed my third year in school. But God's plans differ from man's. Notwithstanding, I accepted the journey, trusting in the good things God had in store for me.

Looking back, I couldn't be happier. My second year turned out to be as I hoped it would be. I had satisfactory grades, developed my writing skills, and stepped out of my comfort zone to relate with more people (if moving from class, to church and the cafeteria counts). I also volunteered for activities that would be of impact to me, while seeking for the growth of others.

In 200 level, I discovered a greater sense of purpose. I realised that I needed to take my life more seriously as I believe the world awaits me.

One of the precious aspects of my journey has been the people I encountered in my second year. Adéọlá, my big fan and an amazing soul. My thoughts go back to an act of hers, which left me a lasting impression; she surprised me with fruits after I casually mentioned needing vitamins. It might have been a little gesture, but it meant so much.

Though, I met Mabel and Praise back in 100 level, they continued to be blessings in 200 level, alongside Fiyin, Tolulope, Doris, Naja'at, and a few others I met, all of whom seem to have motivated or inspired me in a way or two.

Still on finding more meaningful friendships, Lumee Book Club became a safe space for me. Sharing thoughts about books after reading them with such brilliant individuals has been a delightful experience. Should I call them "cool nerds"? Haha.

Finally, there's you, a wonderful person always ready to listen to me. Our conversations are precious to me, and I eagerly look forward to continuing them. You don't want to know how delighted I get whenever I pick up my pen to write to you.

Basically, these are things I would call "Highlights of my Second year". A lot of other things happened, and I am also super grateful for them. Believe me when I say it did not come easy as I had a fair share of frustration and fear.

In all, I believe my journey is just beginning, and I would not stop, nor will I fail. With God, cherished friendships, amazing books, and your presence, I am prepared for what lies ahead. I yearn for growth, and I know it only gets better with time. I understand that hurdles may come, as nothing good comes entirely easy, but I am determined to keep pushing.

Photo by Luca Upper on Unsplash

Side note:

On days when I feel down, I will come back to this reflection and draw motivation from the good things 200 level has given me.

Yours,

Your Friend.